Modern Best Man Etiquette & Duty Guide: Answering the Biggest Questions Behind Today's Trends
By Chloe Bennett
The role does not conclude when the band plays its final song. Post-reception responsibilities are vital to preserving the day's momentum. As the newlyweds depart for an after-party or hotel suite, the best man handles the final loose ends.
First, secure the physical gifts and monetary cards. Cash boxes should be handed directly to a designated parent or placed inside a secured hotel safe. Leaving cards unattended on a reception table invites opportunistic theft.
Second, distribute vendor tips. Caterers, photographers, musicians, and venue staff often receive cash gratuities at the end of the evening. The couple should prepare sealed, labeled envelopes beforehand, which the best man hands out during cleanup. Ensure the groom’s everyday clothes, wallet, and luggage are transported safely from the changing suite to his departure vehicle.
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