Fact-Checking Martin Gore’s Marriages: from Suzanne Boisvert to Kerrilee Kaski
For Gore, domestic sanctuary has always been tied to geography. Santa Barbara serves as a creative sanctuary, far removed from the industry machinery of London or New York. The property features a bespoke home studio where he spends hours sculpting complex soundscapes, producing solo instrumental EPs like MG and The Third Chimpanzee, and assembling demo tracks for Depeche Mode albums.
This serene domestic foundation proved invaluable during the band’s darkest crisis. In May 2022, Depeche Mode suffered a crushing loss when founding keyboardist Andy "Fletch" Fletcher died suddenly at age 60. Fletcher had long served as the band's administrative anchor and emotional diplomat, often mediating creative debates between Gore and Dave Gahan.
Faced with unimaginable grief, Gore and Gahan reunited to complete Memento Mori (released in 2023), leaning into themes of mortality and survival. Observers and fans on community boards like Reddit frequently pointed out that Gore’s domestic stability, bolstered by Kaski and his children, provided the emotional ballast necessary to endure that tragedy, mount a massive 112-date world stadium tour, and perform with genuine vigor.