Ares, Eris, and Discord Explained: the Complete Guide to Myth Vs. Pop Culture
No myth illustrates the functional difference between Ares and Eris better than the incident that sparked the siege of Troy. At the wedding of Peleus and the sea-nymph Thetis, the future parents of Achilles, the gods gathered for a lavish banquet on Mount Pelion. Consciously seeking an evening free of tension, the hosts deliberately excluded Eris from the guest list.
Insulted by the snub, the goddess of discord arrived at the banquet hall unannounced and cast the Golden Apple of Discord into the center of the festivities. Inscribed with a single phrase, Te Kalliste, or "To the Fairest", the apple was immediately claimed by three proud Olympians: Hera, Athena, and Aphrodite.
When Zeus refused to step into the middle of the dispute, the task of judging fell to the Trojan prince Paris. Each goddess offered bribes: Hera promised vast geopolitical dominion, Athena offered unmatched tactical brilliance, and Aphrodite promised the hand of the most beautiful mortal woman alive, Helen of Sparta. Paris chose Aphrodite, orchestrated Helen's abduction, and set the Aegean world on an irreversible course toward destruction. Ares did not orchestrate the disaster; he merely arrived a decade later to revel in the bloodletting outside the walls of Ilium.